Just one thing: 12 January 2026

2026-Jan-12, Monday 06:50
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It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished!

Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!
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I love this stupid show so much. It's a shame that I've run out of episodes; it brings me so much joy. Still, at least there's fanfiction! (And rewatching. I've now seen the episode '90 Degrees' four times in the course of approximately a month, on account of showing it to everyone I know.)

There's something very nostalgic about how loud and ridiculous Robert is; writing him brings me back to writing Jeremy Clarkson, back in my Top Gear days. They're both a lot of fun to write!

Thank you to [personal profile] apiphile, who helped to inspire this fic; I wrote a couple of lines as a joke in response to one of his comments, and then I just kept going!


Title: Broken Hearts and Broken Bones
Fandom: The Goes Wrong Show
Rating: PG-13
Pairing: Robert/Chris
Wordcount: 2,300
Summary: Robert attempts to seduce Chris. His techniques leave a little to be desired.


Broken Hearts and Broken Bones )

Recent media

2026-Jan-12, Monday 17:43
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Mobius | 不眠日
Finished this at the end of 2025. Based on 张小猫's first 逆时侦查组 novel, this is an action/thriller cdrama set in a ~*fictional*~ country where the world sometimes falls into a timeloop. Every loop day repeats itself four times, with the fifth loop becoming the "canon" event. Our MC is the only one aware of the loops and he uses his abilities to solve crime.

Thoughts
This was... okay, I guess? It has some neat HK action movie-inspired fighting and parkour scenes, interesting plot points, and a lot of missed opportunities. The show presents itself as a mystery in which the objective is to discover the true identity of a serial killer and prevent them from succeeding in their nefarious plan. The problem is that the show itself isn't structured as a mystery. The script had no idea how to relay information to the audience, create real tension, or set up suspects, and it treated every single morsel of information as a major twist. IMO it should have focused on the thriller aspects and highlighted the homoeroticism cat-and-mouse relationship of the MC and the villain. And also given us more angst a la the webtoon Surviving Romance where the MC had a lot of hidden trauma from dying and watching people die over and over again.

The soundscaping was also really funny. They only had like maybe 3 BGMs and they used the same Intense Music so much, sometimes in mundane situations, and once three times in a 15-minute span. Maybe they were just being true to form by making us reexperience the same level of intensity that the MC was trapped in. XD

PS. I skimmed the first chapters of the novel and it seemed to be a bit different, a more standard mystery/procedural with timey-wimey elements. And potentially more interesting conflict—the MC and the FL get together because of a previous loop, and are already together at the start of the CEO case where they have to pretend to not be dating. The plot aspects still seem largely similar, though.



Uketsu, "Strange Pictures" (tr. Jim Rion)
A.k.a. the green mystery novel that is all over #booktwt and my sign to stop following booktwt hype.

Thoughts
I really liked the gimmick with the drawings but after the first chapter (the mystery of the blog), it just fell off for me. It was neither a mystery nor a thriller, just a story that the author wanted to tell that they should have focused on developing. The "interlocking" cases felt forced into place, without sufficient plot logic or emotional build-up to make the "reveal" satisfying. The way the story is told feels like a cross between a Youtube true crime video and a videogame, like it was never meant to be a novel at all. As a visual person with information processing issues, the pictures, little diagrams, and timeline recap felt almost made for me but it gets to a point, you now? Must we bold every "important detail" like we're in an Ace Attorney dialogue box?
photo of a page of a book: 'Around half past two, Miura and Toyokawa reached the fourth station rest area and had lunch. Miura ate the Hanayagi Bento from the supermarket. Remember that. It's important.' 'Hanayagi Bento' has been bolded for the reader’s benefit

2/5 because it ended up being a slog for me, especially towards the end where everything was being explained in the dullest way possible. But I think it could have been a decent page-turner if the author was actually interested in the story as something more than a gamified series of events. The way the plot gives so much emotional weight to dubious psychoanalyses of drawings unintentionally shows us society's lack of regard for mental wellness and rehabilitation. I honestly feel like this would have been much better in any other medium. The writing (as far as I can tell from the translation) is so dry and the English is very stilted. Simple is fine, but the dependence on pictures and amount of emphatic handholding make it pretty obvious that the author has 0 confidence in his ability to write and communicate his vision.


Her Story | 好東西 (2024)
Directed by Shao Yihui, who also did B Is For Busy, which is apparently the "prequel" and touches on similar themes (though the POV character in B Is For Busy is a 50-year-old man who teaches painting).

This is a nice, low-key little movie that's not so much about feminism as it is about being a feminist and how your values interact with the real world. And how community is, at the end of the day, about trying your best. Everyone is just trying their best to be a good adult and it's really sweet.

Our characters are: Wang Tiemei, a very feminist single mom, and her neighbor Xiao Ye, a sound artist by day and band vocalist at night. They each bring their people to this new relationship—a precocious but troubled daughter, an ex-husband, a drummer, a situationship, and, well, the rest of Xiao Ye's band.

Thoughts
This was surprisingly restrained and focused—there were a lot of opportunities for big PSA moments that it takes in a more casual-conversational stride to let the different dynamics play out. The movie instead favors character chemistry and relationships, showing us how human connections fill up space and build rhythms into our lives.

Wang Tiemei's "love interests" are less love interests and more mirrors to her own feminist beliefs. Her ex-husband (played by Mark Chao) is a #performative male who gets into reading feminist literature and earnestly parroting lines about the patriarchy. He visits his daughter and his ex-wife often and says a lot of stupid things and gets folded into their growing community and accidentally bonds with his love rival (the drummer of Xiao Ye's band) in the process of competing with him. This is much more effective than writing him as a cartoonishly evil ex which is the standard easy path for the trendy faux-feminist/girlboss stories in East Asian web fiction.

The styling was very on-point, everyone dressing to their personalities so it's part of the characterization. Wang Tiemei's statement shirts and her statement novels (tbh I didn't actually notice them, but [personal profile] superborb did haha), Xiao Ye's charmingly messy rocker chic aesthetic, the drummer boy's tattered knit sweater (he doesn't have enough aura for this to be feel like a deliberate aesthetic choice) and the same black shirt that he wears on multiple days.

My favorite scene was the one where Xiao Ye takes Wang Moli (the daughter) to her workspace and makes her guess sounds! What starts out as a fun little exercise becomes, like Xiao Ye's other line of work, music, as she plays a series of recordings that are nothing but Wang Tiemei. SUCH a good scene and so much warm light.


CW: a brief (unintentional?) self-harm scene + conversations about childhood trauma

Korean practice

2026-Jan-12, Monday 13:38
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Here's the new Korean practice post! As usual now, it's an open chat.

You can write about whatever you want. If you're uninspired, tell us the story of what you're currently watching/reading/playing...
You can talk to one another.
You can also correct one another. Or just indicate "No corrections, please" in your comment if you prefer.

화이팅! <3

random Japan stuff

2026-Jan-12, Monday 20:32
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Last night's sleep was short, and I tried something that supposedly will improve things after a while, but today sucked, so apart from shopping (yes, I can eat 3 fresh-baked sweet potatoes in a row) I didn't go out. So catch up on random stuff: Read more... )

Snowflake Challenge #6: Top 10 Challenge

2026-Jan-13, Tuesday 19:28
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I fell into the Conclave (2024) movie rabbit hole in 2025. There are lots of talented artists in the fandom. Here are ten fanarts I love. Mostly SFW

Vincent Benítez/Goffredo Tedesco dancing by [twitter.com profile] nis_tema : I really like their smile!

Young!Thomas Lawrence & Raymond O'Malley with matching keychains
by [twitter.com profile] ralphater : Love the warm colour,

Conclavification of diptych by Albrecht Durer by [twitter.com profile] asai_ne : it really looks like a medieval church painting.

the bright Morning Star
by [twitter.com profile] asai_ne by : gorgeous Vincent Benítez in the desert

pumpkin head Vincent Benítez/Lawrence dancing by [twitter.com profile] ValeryMadHatter : so adorable!

Cornus Kousa by dambobodam7 : Vincent Benítez surrounded by lilies

I'm a heartless man at worst, babe / And a helpless one at best by [twitter.com profile] popekisser : Cardial Vincent Benítez/Pope Goffredo Tedesco kiss. It's very heartwarming!

Thomas Lawrence starring in a heartburn ad by [twitter.com profile] 9179797778_may : It's really funny!

Let’s have a conclave by [tumblr.com profile] deathcomequickly : impressive animated pixel fanart

Vincent Benítez catching a plushie by [twitter.com profile] bontmercy : so cute!

Visiting a friend

2026-Jan-11, Sunday 23:55
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This evening I got to do a fun thing – I went over to AA and DG’s house and gave AA the Murderbot DVD as an impromptu Christmas gift. It turns out she really likes the actor who stars in it, and she seemed pretty enthusiastic about watching it. J and D were already over there, working on planning Magic decks for the big event in less than two weeks, and J was mostly done at that point, so he chatted with us too some. We learned from AA that Jim Henson’s team had made the trailer for the next Magic set! It was great! Then it turned out that she’d never seen Emmet Otter’s Jug Band Christmas, so we told her about that, so now she has even more fun things to watch. I got to see her crafts room, too, which used to be a bedroom.
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Posted by Mark Olalde

The federal government allows livestock grazing across an area of publicly owned land more than twice the size of California, making ranching the largest land use in the West. Billions of dollars of taxpayer subsidies support the system, which often harms the environment.

As President Donald Trump’s administration pushes a pro-ranching agenda, ProPublica and High Country News investigated how public lands ranching has evolved. We filed more than 100 public record requests and sued the Bureau of Land Management to pry free documents and data; we interviewed everyone from ranchers to conservationists; and we toured ranching operations in Arizona, Colorado, Montana and Nevada.

The resulting three-part investigation digs into the subsidies baked into ranching, the environmental impacts from livestock and the political clout that protects this status quo. Here are the takeaways from that work.

The system has evolved into a subsidy program for ranchers.

The public lands grazing system was modernized in the 1930s in response to the rampant use of natural resources that led to the Dust Bowl — the massive dust storms triggered by poor agricultural practices, including overgrazing. Today, the system focuses on subsidizing the continued grazing of these lands.

The BLM and Forest Service, the two largest federal land management agencies, oversee most of the system. Combined, the agencies charged ranchers $21 million in grazing fees in 2024. Our analysis found that to be about a 93% discount, on average, compared with the market rate for forage on private land. We also found that, in 2024 alone, the federal government poured at least $2.5 billion into subsidy programs that public lands ranchers can access. Such subsidies include disaster assistance after droughts and floods as well as compensation for livestock lost to predators.

Ranching is consolidated in the hands of some of the wealthiest Americans.

A small number of wealthy individuals and corporations manage most livestock on public lands. Roughly two-thirds of the grazing on BLM acreage is controlled by just 10% of ranchers, our analysis found. And on Forest Service land, the top 10% of permittees control more than 50% of grazing. Among the largest ranchers are billionaires like Stan Kroenke and Rupert Murdoch, as well as mining companies and public utilities. The financial benefits of holding permits to graze herds on public lands extend beyond cattle sales. Even hobby ranches can qualify for property tax breaks in many areas; ranching business expenses can be deducted from federal taxes; and private property associated with grazing permits is a stable long-term investment. (Representatives of Kroenke did not respond to requests for comment, and Murdoch’s representative declined to comment.)

The Trump administration is supercharging the system, including by further increasing subsidies.

The administration released a “plan to fortify the American Beef Industry” in October that instructed the BLM and Forest Service to amend grazing regulations for the first time since the 1990s. The plan suggested that taxpayers further support ranching by increasing subsidies for drought and wildfire relief, livestock killed by predators and government-backed insurance. The White House referred questions to the U.S. Department of Agriculture, which said in a statement, “Livestock grazing is not only a federally and statutorily recognized appropriate land use, but a proven land management tool, one that reduces invasive species and wildfire risk, enhances ecosystem health, and supports rural stewardship.” Roughly 18,000 permittees graze livestock on BLM or Forest Service land, most of them small operations. These ranchers say they need government support and cheaper grazing fees to avoid insolvency.

The administration is loosening already lax oversight.

Ranchers must renew their permits to use public lands every 10 years, including undergoing an environmental review. But Congress passed a law in 2014 that allows permits to be automatically renewed if federal agencies are unable to complete such reviews. In 2013, the BLM approved grazing on 47% of its land open to livestock without an environmental review, our analysis of agency data showed. (The status of about an additional 10% of BLM land was unclear that year.) A decade later, the BLM authorized grazing on roughly 75% of its acreage without review.

This is in large part because the BLM’s rangeland management staff is shrinking. The number of these employees dropped 39% between 2020 and 2024, according to Office of Personnel Management data, and roughly 1 in 10 rangeland staff left the agency between Trump’s election win and last June, according to BLM records.

The system allows widespread environmental harm in the West.

The BLM oversees 155 million acres of public lands open to grazing, and assessments it conducts on the health of the environment found that grazing had degraded at least 38 million acres, an area about half the size of New Mexico. The agency has no record of land health assessments for an additional 35 million acres. ProPublica and High Country News observed overgrazing in multiple states, including streambeds trampled by cattle, grasslands denuded by grazing and creeks fouled by cow corpses.

Ranchers contend that public lands grazing has ecological benefits, such as preventing nearby private lands from being sold off and paved over. Bill Fales and his family, for example, run cattle in western Colorado and have done so for more than a century. “The wildlife here is dependent on these ranches staying as open ranch land,” he said. While development destroyed habitat nearby, Fales said, the areas his cattle graze are increasingly shared by animals such as elk, bears and mountain lions.

Regulators say that it’s difficult to significantly change the system because of the industry’s political influence.

We interviewed 10 current and former BLM employees, from upper management to rank-and-file rangeland managers, and they all spoke of political pressure to go easy on ranchers. “If we do anything anti-grazing, there’s at least a decent chance of politicians being involved,” one BLM employee told us. “We want to avoid that, so we don’t do anything that would bring that about.” A BLM spokesperson said in a statement that “any policy decisions are made in accordance with federal law and are designed to balance economic opportunity with conservation responsibilities across the nation’s public lands.”

The industry has friends in high places. The Trump administration appointed to a high-level post at the U.S. Department of the Interior a lawyer who has represented ranchers in cases against the government and owns a stake in a Wyoming cattle operation. The administration also named a tech entrepreneur who owns a ranch in Idaho to a post overseeing the Forest Service.

Moreover, politicians from both parties are quick to act if they believe ranchers face onerous oversight. Since 2020, members of Congress on both sides of the aisle have written to the BLM and Forest Service about grazing issues more than 20 times, according to logs of agency communications we obtained via public records requests.

Read our full investigation of the federal public lands grazing system.

The post The Biggest Takeaways From Our Investigation Into Grazing on Public Lands appeared first on ProPublica.

IYKYK [cur ev]

2026-Jan-12, Monday 05:05
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"What I 'erd, this nobby, 'iz bird got fingered over a tin o'beans, only shot the poor cow, didn't they? So, like, everybody's tooled up, an'..."

One panel from "V for Vendetta" by Alan Moore & David Lloyd, 1988. Page 193, middle row, middle panel.

V for Vendetta, Alan Moore & David Lloyd, 1988



 

Snowflake Challenge #6 : top 10

2026-Jan-12, Monday 11:35
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Snowflake Challenge: A warmly light quaint street of shops at night with heavy snow falling. 

Challenge #6: Top 10 challenge. The top 10 of anything you like.

These are the top 10 games I’ve played recently (well, within the past year).

1. Gabriel Knight: Sins of the Fathers, the 20th Anniversary Edition by Phoenix Online Studios, originally by Sierra On-Line.
A timeless classic point-and-click adventure. Join a murder investigation and delve into Voodoo mysteries in New Orleans. I had played this game before (and the original one too), but felt compelled to replay it recently, after discovering the iPad version. It’s still the best!

2. OneShot by Future Cat.
A puzzle-adventure game made in RPG Maker. You’re on a mission to save a dying world by recovering its sun. The game is not only cute and touching but also a technical marvel. It’s heavily meta, breaks traditional game mechanics, and does things with your computer that I never thought were possible from within a game!

3. Creaks by Amanita Design.
A 2D puzzle-platformer set in a surreal world with gorgeous hand-drawn graphics. Find your way through a maze-like mansion inhabited by birds, ghosts and robots. The puzzles are very clever, evolve in complexity, and require thinking outside the box. It's very fulfilling to find new ways to use existing objects.

4. Nine Noir Lives by Silvernode Studios.
A classic-style point-and-click adventure reminiscent of Monkey Island in both atmosphere and puzzles (but easier). As PI Cuddles, investigate a murder in Meow Meow Furrington, a city of anthropomorphic cats. It's also emotionally stirring, touching on themes like grief and loss and drugs.

5. White Shadows by Monokel.
A 2.5D puzzle-platformer set in a dark, dystopian city of birds, pigs, and other animals. It’s reminiscent of Orwell’s 1984 and Animal Farm. The puzzles are easy, but the game plays like a movie. The graphics are greyscale, which fits the atmosphere perfectly, and the lighting and sound effects are amazing.

6. The Past Within by Rusty Lake.
A puzzle game in the usual Rusty Lake style, dealing with dark and creepy mysteries. Unlike the other games, this one is co-op: one player is in the past and the other in the future, and you have to find ways to communicate between them. For the lack of gamer friends, I cheated and played both parts alone on two computers. It works fine ;)

7. Randal’s Monday by Nexus Game Studios.
Another classic-style point-and-click adventure, with a lot of pop-culture references and cynical humour. Randal is stuck in a time loop, trying to fix his mess-ups but only making things worse. (Note: Randal is a jerk. He’s rude and obnoxious, but the game was still absolutely fun to play!)

8. A Pet Shop After Dark by npckc.
A puzzle game made in Ren’Py. It looks deceptively simple and the graphics are minimalistic, but the gameplay is heavily meta. Much of it involves messing around with your actual filesystem ;) and some of the puzzles are truly devious. I love this stuff!

9. Three Minutes to Eight by Chaosmonger Studio.
A pixel-art point-and-click adventure. You’re stuck in a time loop (one of my favourite tropes ;) and have limited time to figure out what’s going on and how to carry your progress over to the next loop. There are multiple endings, and they’re wildly different!

10. The Room by Fireproof Games.
A puzzle game that feels very physical, with a crazy amount of knobs, buttons, levers, and even some tilt and motion-control puzzles (I played on iPad). It’s not the kind of game I usually play, because the story is minimal. But the atmosphere is fantastic, and fiddling with all those mechanisms and unlocking new areas is incredibly fun and rewarding.

Shockingly good advice from Hariette

2026-Jan-12, Monday 04:33
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[personal profile] conuly posting in [community profile] agonyaunt
DEAR HARRIETTE: My brother and I were raised in the same household by the same parents, yet as adults we have two very different views of our father. I see my dad as someone who worked hard, showed up in the ways he could and consistently supported us throughout our lives. I'm deeply grateful for him and everything he's done. My brother, on the other hand, seems to carry a lot of resentment. Whenever the subject of our dad comes up, he focuses on his shortcomings and disappointments, often listing ways he feels let down or overlooked. Listening to this has become exhausting and painful for me. It feels like he's erasing the good and ignoring the sacrifices our dad made, and I can't help but hear it as ungratefulness. At the same time, I don't want to dismiss my brother's experience or silence his truth just because it differs from mine. How do I respect his feelings without sitting through what feels like constant criticism of someone I love? -- Oh, Brother

As always, we grade her on a curve because she's usually so terrible )

Catalogue check (2024) update

2026-Jan-12, Monday 16:58
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I've managed to winkle out some of the books that didn't get spotted while I was doing the catalogue check in 2024 (which finished, for logistics reasons, in about February 2025).

And I've just looked at the number of tags that I have (>2K) and decided that is ridiculous. The first pass I'm doing is changing all the old location tags to [year] - last seen (not the 'unchecked/not yet seen' ones, those I'm going to think about some more). Because where any book was in 2021 (etc) is obviously not right, or I would have found it there in 2024. Once I've done that for all years prior to 2024, I'm going to go poke at the various 'unchecked' tags and see what is there.

other things I've noticed that I want to reorder

  • mythology should be mythology - [country]
  • awards should be awards: [name]
  • I have juvenile and kids and junior fiction and possibly some others, as well as a set of age: [...] categories; need to think what I want to do here.
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Challenge #01: The Icebreaker Challenge: Introduce yourself. Tell us why you're doing the challenge, and what you hope to gain from it.

I'm a fangirl who has been involved with fandom for a very long time, started my online fandom journey on LJ in 2003 and I haven't stopped since. As one can see on my profile just a taste of the various fandoms and interests that I'm into.

When it comes to [community profile] snowflake_challenge, I have participated in the challenge itself for some years because, ultimately, it's just fun. I like being given prompts where I can give insightful answers to, I like the level of engagement it provides with interacting with others with fannish interests, from just those on your friendslist to others who participated in this challenge. Which is another thing, last year was the first time I actively participated in the challenge by linking my posts to the community and reading/commenting on others who also participated in the challenge, as well. I miss fandom engagement like that, and that's why I like doing this challenge every year.

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2026-Jan-12, Monday 00:52
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Next picture: Flight of the Conchords
Characters: Bret, Jemaine, Murray

Flight Of The Conchords 2 2009 j3UR8mG


Mod note: This challenge/activity will be open until Monday night. :)
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Top 10 Challenge.
Here are my Top 10+ Nonfiction Books if You Want to Get into Nonfiction*:
*in no particular order
  • Holy Sh*t: A Brief History of Swearing by Melissa Mohr
  • In the Dream House by Carmen Maria Machado
  • Entangled Life: How Fungi Make Our Worlds, Change Our Minds and Shape Our Futures by Merlin Sheldrake
  • Enchantment: Awakening Wonder in an Anxious Age by Katherine May
  • The Hours Have Lost Their Clock: The Politics of Nostalgia by Grafton Tanner
  • The Magician's Book: A Skeptic's Adventures in Narnia by Laura Miller
  • Saving Time: Discovering Life Beyond the Clock by Jenny Odell
  • Index, A History of the: A Bookish Adventure from Medieval Manuscripts to the Digital Age by Dennis Duncan
  • The Family Romanov: Murder, Rebellion, and the Fall of Imperial Russia by Candace Flemming
  • Work Won't Love You Back: How Devotion to Our Jobs Keeps Us Exploited, Exhausted, and Alone by Sarah Jaffe
  • Around the World on Two Wheels: Annie Londonderry's Extraordinary Ride by Peter Zheutlin
  • Let's Get Physical: How Women Discovered Exercise and Reshaped the World by Danielle Friedman
  • Most Dangerous: Daniel Ellsberg and the Secret History of the Vietnam War by Steve Sheinkin
  • Rental Person Who Does Nothing by Shoji Morimoto
… OK, I got excited and put in more than 10. I really love nonfiction! I got into it in 2015-2016 or so and, since 2020, it's been pretty much all I'm able to read consistently (save occasional forays into contemporary romance and domestic thriller, other genres I rarely read before the pandemic started). Even if you think of yourself as primarily a reader of fiction, there's something in here for you, as these are narrative nonfiction; I'd say The Family Romanov Most Dangerous are the most "novelistic" as reading experiences.

Next On My Nonfiction Reading List:
  • All Consuming: Why We Eat the Way We Eat Now by Ruby Tanoh
  • Bad Company: Private Equity and the Death of the American Dream by Megan Greenwell
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2026 New Year Resolutions Ideas: Build on 2025’s Learnings

Looking back, many of us struggled with overstuffed goals, inconsistent routines, and vague accountability. In 2026, we’ll fix that with simpler productivity resolutions, stronger feedback loops, and smarter time management resolutions that respect your capacity.

At Timing, we’ve been exploring ways to work smarter, reduce stress, and increase happiness in our day‑to‑day lives. Building on the lessons of 2025, we’ve compiled 21 practical new year resolutions ideas for realistic resolutions for 2026 that you can measure, adjust, and sustain—especially useful for freelancers, consultants, and small teams with ambitious work goals for 2026
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2026-Jan-11, Sunday 03:23
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Dear Eric: My husband has just one sibling, a brother. For many years, we all invited each other to celebrate birthdays, anniversaries and other holidays. A few years ago, my brother-in-law and his wife stopped inviting us. (They still invite my husband's parents to everything).

We don't know the reason; there was no fight or misunderstanding or awkward interactions. We in turn no longer invite them to our smaller occasions. Weddings and other big occasions are different; everyone is invited.

However, every time we are celebrating our birthdays or anniversary, my husband starts insisting on inviting his brother. No matter how many times I remind him that they no longer invite us, he says it is still his only sibling and it's important to him that his brother be there.

I refuse to agree to invite them, the only exception I make is for my husband's birthday because that's him we are celebrating so he can invite them if he wants. They attend his birthday but do not reciprocate. It's very weird.

I still cannot figure out why it's important to have people at our table that do not care about seeing us at theirs.

Can you help me formulate a response that would stop my husband from asking me to invite them? Apparently my saying no every time for years and explaining why is not sufficient. I am tired of these arguments, and it does not change anything. I need an ironclad reason that he will agree with.

– Tired of the One-Way Street


Read more... )

the personal stuff

2026-Jan-12, Monday 15:19
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I had a week off work - I think it was more a "work doesn't want to see full numbers of people back in the office until halfway through January, so if there's anyone who can be taken off the work roster during this time, do it".

Which, I had generally a good week, got some good writing in, managed to rejig the part of Nullifae 1 which had been giving me trouble, and have sorted out the "losing the mentor" part of the story and how we get there. Also, discovered a few things that will be relevant in later books (when we get there). A relief.

On Tuesday, B1 and I went to see the Ashes 5th Test at the Sydney Cricket Ground, had a good day of watching Aussies bat, a couple of hundreds gained, one of my sister's favourite cricketers play what could well have been his last innings (but wasn't), and saw Australia get ahead to the tune of about 230 runs - a nice cushion.

On Monday, we lost a chicken.

tw: not a peaceful going

Carambar was supposed to be one of our 'long-lived' girls. We bought two of a newly-developed heritage breed that were supposed to lay many eggs while still keeping going. It might be that their bloodlines may need a bit more breeding to properly settle, because the first one died with possible neurological issues having never laid an egg, and Carambar only laid for about 12 months before developing complications with laying, and needing a chip to keep her from laying.

She was otherwise perfectly healthy and surviving well. Unfortunately, while both B1 and myself were away from home, the neighbour's dog got out, chased her out of the yard and under the house. When we got her out (after the neighbour came and reclaimed her dog), she had been bitten about the head enough that she was bleeding and injured, and when we got her to the vet it turned out her wing was broken. We didn't have the resources and energy to try to get her back to health, so we had to have her put down.

The neighbour paid for the vet bill, but we're still furious about her dogs. She's nearly 70 and has two bouncing, energetic young spaniel-type dogs that she has always struggled to keep on a leash, and which she's been nice white lady oblivious to anything but her joy in gossipy conversation when walking them. They're probably companionship for her - her son is married, and her daughter self-terminated about 7 years ago - but she's not up to controlling them, and they keep getting out of her place. She's always apologetic, but that doesn't stop the fact that one of our chickens died because of her dogs!


Anyway. That was the start of the week.

By Wednesday the temperatures were rising, by Saturday it was nutso. 42C by 6pm...and then our street power went off. Just our street. *sigh*

A friend invited me over for a swim, and I spent a lovely hour in her pool with her youngest daughter, and then about 20 minutes discussing politics with her husband, brother-in-law, and older daughter. And when I went home, the power was back on again.

Today - first day back at work - has been tiring, but nothing dire. I did go to the gym this morning, and ended up walking 1. I have a call to Jury Duty, but I suspect I can't get out of it this time. Although my boss has just messaged me - apparently contracting is considered 'self-employed', so I might have a chance not to lose 3 months worth of income...

brackish

2026-Jan-12, Monday 00:00
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Merriam-Webster's Word of the Day for January 12, 2026 is:

brackish • \BRACK-ish\  • adjective

Brackish, meaning “somewhat salty,” usually describes water or bodies of water, such as rivers, lakes, and estuaries. The word can also mean “not appealing to the taste” or “repulsive.”

// The river becomes brackish as we approach the tidemark.

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Examples:

“The blood-testing organs don’t measure water levels but rather the concentration of salt, whose healthy range lies at almost exactly the same concentration as that of the brackish intertidal water in which vertebrates first evolved (which is about one-third as salty as seawater).” — Dan Samorodnitsky, Wired, 28 Sept. 2025

Did you know?

When the word brackish first appeared in English in the 1500s, it simply meant “salty,” as did its Dutch parent brac. Then, as now, brackish was used to describe water that was a mixture of saltwater and freshwater, such as one encounters where a river meets the sea. Since that time, however, brackish has developed the additional meanings of “unpalatable” and “repulsive,” presumably because of the oozy, mucky, and sometimes stinky (or stinkyish, if you prefer)—not just salty—qualities of coastal estuaries and swamps.



An unexpected revelation

2026-Jan-11, Sunday 23:56
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Had a person wander into the 2nd floor corridor looking for the women's washroom. Alas, our 2nd floor women's washroom stopped being functional this week end so all I had to offer was three gender neutral washrooms... one of which is usually the men's.

Then it occurred to me the corridor she came from is from the "new" part of Hagey, the accounting section. While she was hesitating, looking unhappy at the choices offered, I asked if that was where she was from. She said yes, so I told her that section has a very nice (zero barrier) women's on the main floor. Off she went.

Once she was gone, it struck me as odd that she would wander as far as old Hum looking for a washroom.t.

I mentioned this to my supervisor and yeah, apparently because it's an expansion of Hagey, it didn't have to have all the amenities an independent building of the same size would have to have. Thus the comparative lack of washrooms, and a total lack of elevators.

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