I've had an eventful week. I wrote about Friday's dinner
here and Saturday's wedding
here, and now it's time for the rest of it.
On Sunday my parents came into town and we went out to dinner at Francesca's, a local chain with one branch near my apartment and another one out in the far western suburbs. I'd eaten at the suburban one and it was fine, but this time it was pretty bland.

Both my father's and my meals were unimpressive and tasteless, and it was only the free dessert we got because my father mentioned my birthday that really made the dinner worth eating. Fortunately, the cherry pie that they brought from home was delicious. We got some frozen custard from Lickity Split and ate it together.
Among the presents they gave me was a Japanese pickle press. I eat an enormous amount of pickles (every morning at breakfast), and I wanted a way to make refrigerator pickles that didn't need vinegar or twenty-four hours of drying. It worked! The pickles have a different flavor than the ones I make with apple-cider vinegar do, but that's not surprising. They're more clear, and they go better with rice and salted fish. I'm not sure even a three liter press is big enough to keep me in pickles without making apple cider vinegar pickles still, but now I have a choice.
After my parents left, I texted
lisekatevans on Sunday night to see if she was free, and I ended up going over to her condo after she was finished with a voice recording session and we drank wine for a while and chatted. She gave me ice cream to help my stomach, which was twisting itself in knots, and then showed me several of Taylor Swift's latest videos because she knew I loved cyberpunk literature and fashion and wanted to know what I thought of them. Especially
...Ready For It?, where the love song lyrics contrast with a robot trying everything to break out from the cage it's been placed in. I mentioned the scene in
Ghost in the Shell where the major looks up and sees someone else with her same model of cyberbody drinking in a cafe across the river, and also probably my favorite quote about using cyberpunk just as an aesthetic without actually having anything to say:
Cyberpunk is just Asian cities.
I've seen a lot of cyberpunk aesthetic tumblrs that just post photos of Shinjuku at night in the rain.

Monday, my actually birthday, I mostly did chores to prep for the week. I had taken it off but didn't have any plans and had to do laundry, vacuum, go shopping, make my lunches, and a bunch of other adulting. Tuesday was a normal day with Japanese tutoring where we talked about my weekend and about Japanese cooking.
Wednesday I left work and went to Ramen Wasabi in Logan Square for dinner, alone since no one else was free, where I learned that they could swap out the pork for chicken in the ramen so I could have meat, but cooked their eggs in pork fat so I couldn't get an egg.

Then I went on to the movie theatre where Anime Chicago was getting together to watch
夜は短し歩けよ乙女 /
The Night is Short, Walk on Girl. With
stephen_poon, who wasn't signed up through the Meetup site but new several of the people coming and independently decided to go!
I was warned beforehand that Masaaki Yuasa's work was polarizing, but I loved the movie. I loved the dreamlike quality, the way the scenes flowed into each other and it often wasn't clear what was metaphor and what wasn't, the way things seem to get kind of unreal on a late night out on the town where one event blurs into the next and after leaving every place, the response is "where do we go next?!" Plus, I've been out at night in
Pontochō, where the film opens, and I've walked along the Kamogawa. It turned out that
stephen_poon even went to a wedding reception in Pontochō and the film's first scene is a wedding reception!
I recommend it if you can find it anywhere.
Thursday was mostly ordinary. Therapy went well--we talked a bit about my anxiety about spending money and when my therapist asked what it was that I was worried about, I said that I'm American and it would be trivially easy for me to develop a health condition or have an accident that requires extensive and expensive health care. I have good insurance, but what happens if I can't work? What happens if the American fascists* reinstitute pre-existing condition death panels? I've lived in countries that have real health care systems, so I know exactly what we're missing. She accepted that and then asked me how much money I would need to feel safe, and I had to admit that I didn't think any realistic amount would be enough. So I guess that's an area I can work on.
I went home, took a shower, sat down to work on coding practice, and then I get a text from
lisekatevans inviting me out to a birthday party one of her friends was holding at Pearl's, so I threw on some clothes and went out on a work night to listen to actors swap stories about meeting famous people, plays they were in, Midwestern manners, Scotch distilling, and so on. I mostly listened, though
lisekatevans valiantly tried to throw me a couple conversational ropes, but my areas of interest were pretty distant from most of the other people in attendance. The stories and the drinks were good, though, and the birthday girl was wearing a black dress and boots--from what
lisekatevans said, her usual aesthetic--so I approve of her sartorial choices. I bought one of her drinks because there was a $10 minimum on card charges.

Early in August I invited
worldbshiny out to Izakaya Mita to drink sake and eat Japanese food, and while her schedule has been pretty hectic, she finally had a free moment on Friday. She messaged both
meowtima and me, but
meowtima couldn't come due to making a million caramels for an event on Sunday. So after work, I went to Bucktown and walked up to
Moth, bought a book called
日本茶 / Japanese Green Tea, a travel guide to tea shops in Tōkyō in both Japanese and English. I overpaid by quite a bit--the price on the back was ¥1500 and Moth charged me $33, which is almost 2.5 times the cover price--but I like supporting Moth because my Japanese tutor works there. Then I spent some time in a Starbucks reading Naomi Novik's
Spinning Silver until 7 p.m., where I walked over to Izakaya Mita and met
worldbshinyIt was nice! I didn't have a very good opinion of Izakaya Mita's food from previous visits, though the drinks are excellent, so I expecting to love the sake and tolerate the food. But we stuck to mostly
kushiyaki and appetizers like pickles and
gobō kinpira instead of going for the okonomiyaki--Kansai style, plus both varieties were treif--or ramen. The duck heart and duck liver
kushiyaki were delicious! And the sake was good too, though the first one I tried was a bit sour for me and the second one was unmemorable, the other two, especially the nigori, were delicious.
worldbshiny even got the Tedorigawa sake made at the Yoshida brewery featured in
The Birth of Sake (which I wrote about
here)! I had a much better culinary experience this time, and
worldbshiny and I chatted about our lives because we haven't really had a chance to talk before now. After a few hours,
worldbshiny was fading thanks to the effects of the sake, so we went out and caught the bus back to our respective apartments.
As I left, I snapped out
ご馳走様でした as I left and after a startled pause, got back a hearty
お疲れ様でした。
This weekend I don't have much to do, which is good. I could use the break.